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Don't be fooled (review of new Swedish book)

Postby StuartM » Wed Sep 22, 2010 1:51 pm

This is a review of a book I bought a few days ago in Sweden and which I think brilliantly pulls apart the lies being spread by those who support prostitution and trying to have it legalised there. Although most Swedes support the law against buying sex there have been a number of pseudo-feminists and post-modernist academics who in recent years have been doing their best to frame prostitution through terms such as "queer", "revolutionary" and "transgressive" and to claim that it's somehow anti-feminist to oppose a woman's "right to sell her body". Kajsa Ekis Ekman who works as a journalist and is a radical feminist, socialist and anarchist was alarmed at the way the debate was turning and has written the book and a number of articles in response.

The review doesn't go into it so much but in the book she exposes the absurdity of the arguments used by so-called academics like Laura Agustin who try to accuse radical feminists of being the oppressors while completely ignoring the true perpetrators of violence and abuse. Their hatred of the term of victim is obvious because if there are no victims then there are no oppressors and if there are no oppressors then what is there to fight against? They may claim to be radicals and revolutionaries but in actual fact all they do is defend the status-quo in an oppressive and unjust world.

Don't be fooled

Looking at the debate on prostitution in Sweden in recent years you get the impression that prostitution has been transformed into a pleasant and safe hobby for smart girls and boys. Kajsa Ekis Ekman crushes the contemporary prostitution myth in her book Varat och varan.

"I lived for a while in Barcelona and shared a flat with a woman from Russian. She was called Olga and prostituted herself on the approaches to Barcelona. She provided for her boyfriend and gathered money also for her brother who was in prison.

"Prostitution wasn't totally unusual in Barcelona. There was a view that it was part of the bohemian life, something charming.

"But that wasn't how it worked. She went to the motorway and stood there from 6 in the morning till late at night. When she came home she drank for several hours to subdue her anxiety. Later she slept. And then began again the next day."

When Kajsa Ekis Ekman went home from Barcelona to Sweden there was a debate going on in Sweden, but one which involved the view that prostitution had nothing at all the do with the oppression of women. it was not any pimps or porn magnates who drove the discussion. It was women like Petra Östergren who accused feminism of oppressing its prostituted sisters. There were syndicalists who demanded that Sweden have unions for the prostituted. And queer theorists such as Don Kulick who asserted that the prostituted broke society's gender norms and should be considered as some sort of revolutionaries. In heated debate programmes on TV there were people who prostituted themselves and assured us that they were happy and doing it out of choice.

With a review of Petra Östergren's prostitution positive book Kajsa Ekis Ekman began a 4 year long educational journey through the world of prostitution. She quickly discovered that nothing was it appeared in the debate programmes. After a number of journeys to countries such as Holland, Germany and France, where it was claimed prostitutes organised themselves Ekman came to an implacable conclusion: there are no unions for the prostituted i.e. being funded by their members and which act against the employers. Those which allegedly existed were always in league with the industry itself. They never managed to organise more than a tiny minority of prostitutes and they never managed to drive any union demands.

Neither can the idea of a regulated prostitution protect the prostituted. To be prostituted is today the most dangerous situation a woman can find herself in, more dangerous than to be homeless or on drugs. The death rate is 40 times higher than for other women - this is shown by studies both in countries where prostitution is illegal and where it has been legalised. Regardless of the laws that exist there is always violence, abuse, force and human trafficking.

"We are back in the situation we were in 100 years ago. You can see how legal prostitution leads to slavery. That was the reason why regulated prostitution was abolished and it is the same today", says Ekman.

In Sweden today, when politicians from the Centre Party and Liberal Party's youth associations want to legalise prostitution, one can get the impression that we are in the process of becoming more liberal on the question. Ekman believes it is the opposite. Norway has adopted the Swedish model and countries such as Holland are beginning to move away from their naive view on legal prostitution. And the Swedish law stands firm, believes Ekman.

"The lobby squabbles but they will never change the law. The Swedish sex purchase law will begin instead to be natural and self-evident. It is supported also by a clear majority, 80 percent".

But what then is the problem with the debate?

"The friends of prostitution have a contempt for weakness, a cold and cynical view of humanity, which has the consequence that you only have yourself to blame".

If you see nothing wrong with prostitution then the motivation to help people out of it is diminished.

"One can see that there is a difference between how people in prostitution are met by the advice services in Malmö, where this idea is stronger, as opposed to in Stockholm and Göteborg. The core of the debate today is that the prostituted should not be seen as victims but as strong entrepreneurs who choose what they do.

"They say that women are subjects, not victims. But these words are not eachother's opposite. People in vulnerable positions, refugees, prostituted or threatened people always create strategies for handling their situation. It doesn't mean that they are not victims of terrible things.

"The word victim has came to denote a person's character. A victim is a loser, someone with feeble intelligence or an unlucky wretch. With this the whole question of oppression is lifted away. The question concerns only that you have chosen it yourself."

If the left wants to refute the prostitution offensive one must understand how prostitution works and why young girls prostitute themselves.

"People in Sweden seldom prostitute themselves because they need to pay the rent. It is type of self-harming activity."

Ekman talks about how she has a friend who prostitutes herself now and then, only when she's feeling bad.

"I see it with her, always. She says first that she hasn't done it, then it becomes apparent that I was right".

The left has also, perhaps out of a fear of "oppressing" prostitutes, became uncertain in the new debate on prostitution. But there is no reason for this, believes Ekman.

"The most important thing I have to say is: don't be fooled! Prostitution's friends have nothing to support them! Prostitution, legal or illegal, is the most deadly position a woman can find herself in, more dangerous than being a drug addict or homeless. If you don't take a position against it then what is the left for?"

The debate's premises were a shock to discover for Ekman.

"This here is the first of society's debates I have actually took part in fully, yet I notice it is a debate which is completely empty. A debate which isn't needed because we already know how things are! But it is as if facts aren't important on TV debates and in culture pages.

You have a responsibility if you participate in debates about society, says Ekman. To find out the facts and say the truth: people are are hurt by prostitution in one way or the other. Then she tells the ends of Olga's story. That Olga was dead when Kajsa returned to Barcelona.

"I tried to find her, but there was noone in the neighbourhood who knew who she was. We didn't know what her surname was, only that she was in a churchyard in an anonymous grave. I rung round different churches to find out where she lay, and they said, 'what Olga? There are 30'.

"This is the reality. Who is there who cares about her?

"Don't be a coward. Then you can't be an intellectual."

by Aron Etzler

(from http://www.flamman.se/bli-inte-lurade)
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Re: Don't be fooled (review of new Swedish book)

Postby StuartM » Wed Sep 22, 2010 4:11 pm

Here's another really good review of the book from the newspaper Dagens Nyheter (one of Sweden's largest):

Without victims no perpetrators

It happens sometimes, but not very often, that I get goose pimples when I read something that is razor-sharp in its argument. Kajsa Ekis Ekman's Varat och varan: prostitution, surrogatmödraskap och den delade människan is such a book which leaves me full of new thoughts. It concerns the prostitution debate where Ekis Ekman finds fascinating similarities with discussions around surrogate mothering.

In a time when prostitution's supporters are both noisy and many in number it feels like a real blessing that someone finally inspects their arguments. Ekis Ekman does this and begins by showing how they, over and over again, have denied that there exists a victim.

To be able to defend that women sell their bodies (and that men buy them) must one first abolish the victim and instead redefine the prostitute as a sex worker, a strong women who knows what she wants, a businesswoman. The sex workers becomes a sort of new version of the “happy hooker”.

Ekis Ekman shows in a convincing way how this happens through a rhetoric which portrays the victim position as a trait of character instead of using the correct definition of a victim: someone who is affected by something. In such a way the terrible reality in which women in prostitution find themselves in is concealed. The fear of the “victim” in the prostitution debate together with the critique of feminism is something which mirrors neoliberalism's general victim hate – since all talk of the vulnerable person immediately reveals an unjust society. Through making the victim taboo can one legitimise class inequalities and gender discrimination, for if there is no victim there is no perpetrator.

When Susan Faludi's Backlash reached Sweden in 1992 it was exactly this she unmasked; how women on the one side were told how free and equal they were, at the same time as stories of unhappy, burnt out and depressed modern women were highlighted in popular culture and the media. And this was all feminism's fault.

According to the prostitution supporters of the 21st century is it again feminists together with social workers who turn prostituted women into helpless victims when they believe prostitution harms women. But as Ekis Ekman writes, to understand the mechanisms behind, to see that many women in prostitution have a history of poverty, sexual abuse and addiction, is not the same thing as denying them their potential for action.

Along with the persistent work to abolish the victim there is a further area where prostitution supporters have tried to alter the narrative. Ekis succeeds here to lay bare how they have actively claimed that it's possible to sell the body without selling (or influencing) the mind. As if the sex was something separate from mind and body, something disengaged which hung and dangled between she who sold and he who bought.

To not feel your body is a symptom which arises among people who experience extremely tough events and violations. One disassociates, a sort of fleeing mechanism which leads to a splitting of the self to get away from the cruelty one is subjected to. Disassociative syndrome, to for example lose the ability to feel certain body parts, is a recurrent theme in researchers interviews with women who found themselves in prostitution.

But that which is seen as a problem among researchers, therapists and social workers is almost seen as the ideal among prostitution supporters. The splitting of body and soul, which is a survival strategy, is seen instead as a sign of strength. Also in popular culture's stories of prostitution there exists this as evidence that the division is possible. It is therefore simple to think of Julia Roberts' 'pretty woman' as smart and strong when she explains that she doesn't let herself be kissed on the mouth by the johns. She sells not herself, only a sexual service.

In the second part of the book Ekman analyses surrogate motherhood and finds the same type of treacherous reasoning here as in the prostitution debate. How one creates stories of the happy breeding woman through toning down the role of money and instead emphasising the active, altruistic, voluntary contribution the woman makes when she sets aside her body for anothers' child.

The surrogate mothering industry which exists in for example India and Ukarine is nothing other than slavery. Ekis Ekman writes about the so-called apartment hotel where surrogate mothers are quite simply locked up under the 9 month long pregnancy, deprived of all human rights. “It is hard to see how anyone can defend a situation where the world's rich make use of the world's poor as breeding animals, filling them with hormones, taking the child away and leaving small amounts of money in return.

Here I am totally with Ekis Ekman in her reasoning. More doubtful I become when she describes the so-called altruistic surrogate mothering. I can't avoid thinking it's harder to totally condemn a situation where for example a woman offers to carry her infertile sister's child, or where a friend of a homosexual couple allows themselves to carry their friend's child. But Ekis Ekman believes the altruistic surrogate mothering only is another part of the same scale as the commercial, slavery-resembling industry which exists in the third world, in the same way that trafficking is a consequence of the “voluntary” prostitution.

Voluntariness is a tricky term and of course it is difficult to know exactly what lies behind the woman who says she wants to carry the child of another couple, even if there is no economic compensation for it. How is it that so many afterwards have talked about anxiety and depression? Is it at all possible to guard against (for example with help from the law) a woman's potentially underlying, perhaps unconscious, motive for surrogate motherhood? And does it mean that on the other hand there cannot be individual cases where everything is as clear and beautiful as an autumn evening? And do these individual cases weigh heavily enough in comparison to those cases where the purpose and motives are not equally clear and beautiful?

I have no idea but would have gladly read more about just this complex part of surrogate mothering.

It's really good when Ekis Ekman shows how the story of surrogate mothering is written as a story of the Madonna, the Virgin Mary. The women who gives birth without intercourse, she who does it only to please another and demands nothing back, who is often married and lives in a nuclear family. While the happy hooker is described as a smart and enterprising girl, the happy breeding woman is described as a generous and self-sacrificing Madonna figure. The majority of American surrogate mothers are deeply faithful and have a Christian background where surrogate mothering is seen as a sort of Godly calling.

Ekis Ekman finds several similarities in the reasoning behind surrogate mothering and prostitution, such as that around the division of body and soul which also exists among surrogate mothers. When the prostituted says that “the body is not the soul”, the surrogate mother says “the child is not mine”. To sell a part of herself the surrogate mother must, exactly like the prostitute, distance herself from that part.

But while prostitution research has given words to these feeling research on surrogate mothering has hardly noticed them. Noone has taken an interest in whether the surrogate mother disassociates. On the contrary researchers believe that just this distance (to relinquish feeling for the child) shows that surrogate mothering works. The best surrogate mother is the one who feels the least. Or as Ekis Ekman writes in the last pages of her book: The splitting is made holy while the whole is demonised. Women are denied their full humanity. Enclosed, locked in, numned.

This must be one of the year's most important books and I hope sincerely that it reaches researchers and politicians along with anyone who claims an interest in feminism. Seldom have my eyes been so widely open, red-rimmed and aching.

by Maria Sveland

(from http://www.dn.se/dnbok/bokrecensioner/utan-offer-inga-forovare-1.1171537)
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Re: Don't be fooled (review of new Swedish book)

Postby berryblade » Thu Sep 23, 2010 12:12 am

Thank you very much for sharing this articles, they're very informative, but are very personal. This is the kind of information I need for a university presentation in a couple of weeks when I get back from my break.

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Re: Don't be fooled (review of new Swedish book)

Postby StuartM » Sat Sep 25, 2010 9:52 am

You're welcome berryblade. I also wrote this for Scottish Socialist Youth as the book has given me lots of new ideas:

Prostitution, the abolition of the victim and post-modernism’s defence of the status-quo

I’ve just finished reading a book by the Swedish socialist, anarchist and feminist Kajsa Ekis Ekman which she primarily devotes to debunking the arguments used to justify prostitution and the surrogate-mothering industry. Her book was written as a response to the media’s misrepresentation of prostitution as some sort of smart and glamorous career choice for young women to make and at the increasing number of post-modernist academics and ‘queer-theorists’ who have been questioning Sweden’s prostitution laws by, among other things, ludicrously trying to frame prostitution as something ‘transgressive’ and which ‘challenges gender norms’.

The abolition of the victim

Ekis Ekman highlights at length the tactics which the supporters of prostitution have adopted in recent years and exposes how false, absurd and damaging their arguments really are. Particularly interesting I think is when she writes about the attempts that have been made to abolish the term ‘victim’ from the debate around prostitution. To be a victim has come to be seen as something shameful and to refer to someone as a victim is, according to the post-modernists, to deny them their ‘agency’. Ekman exposes why this lie has come about and what wider political consequences it has. Her point here is summed up in a review of the book in Dagens Nyheter:

“To be able to defend that women sell their bodies (and that men buy them) one must first abolish the victim and instead redefine the prostitute as a sex worker, a strong woman who knows what she wants, a businesswoman. The sex worker becomes a sort of new version of the ‘happy hooker’.

“Ekis Ekman shows in a convincing way how this happens through a rhetoric which portrays the victim position as a trait of character instead of using the correct definition of a victim: someone who is affected by something. In such a way the terrible reality in which women in prostitution find themselves is concealed. The fear of the ‘victim’ in the prostitution debate … is something which mirrors neo-liberalism’s general victim hate – since all talk of the vulnerable person immediately reveals an unjust society. Through making the victim taboo can one legitimise class inequalities and gender discrimination, for if there is no victim there is no perpetrator.”

Those who defend prostitution, as Ekis Ekman points out in an interview in the socialist newspaper Flamman, “have a contempt for weakness, a cold and cynical view of humanity, which has the consequence that you only have yourself to blame”.

To see evidence of this we need look no further than the works of ‘academics’ such as Laura Agustin, someone who has gone as far as to deny the existence of human trafficking. Victims of pimps and human traffickers are referred to, in her language, as “migrant sex workers” who actively choose their situation. Discussing women brought into western countries by criminal gangs and locked into flats and prostituted for months at a time, Agustin writes:

“These circumstances where women live in sex establishments and seldom leave them before, without being asked, moved elsewhere receive great attention in the media and it’s taken as a given that this involves a complete denial of freedom. But in many cases migrant workers prefer this arrangement for a number of reasons. If they don’t leave the area they don’t waste any money and, if they have no work permit, they feel safer in a controlled environment. If someone else finds the meeting places for them and books their appointments it means they don’t have to do it themselves. If they have come on a 3 month tourist visa they want to devote as much time as possible to making money”.

Another sickening example from Ekman’s book is that in Australia, a country which has long championed legalised prostitution, victims of child abuse have came to be referred to as "chil-d sex workers". An official report there talks about a 9 year old abuse victim having been “offered a warm bed and a nice meal” by his abusers and of “thinking it was fantastic” when the men who raped him gave him $50. Any details of the crime he was subjected to are on the other hand almost completely absent, apart from the words: “sex took place”.

What these examples all have in common is that they remove the focus from the perpetrator. They make it sound like the abused, prostitutes, children, the victims of poverty, drug abuse and economic exploitation, have themselves chosen the situation in which they find themselves. By changing the definition of the victim so as to turn it into a personal trait, by turning ‘victim’ and ’subject’ into the opposite of each other, the post-modernists lift away all talk of the deeper structures and power differences which affect people’s lives, something which of course suits perfectly the interests of the rich and powerful by masking the oppressive and unjust nature of the society in which we live.

Transgression of divisions as opposed to their abolition

In another section of the book she talks about what she describes as ‘the cult of the whore’, about the district of Raval in Barcelona, the people there who wear T-shirts with the slogan ‘Yo també soc puta’ (‘I am also a whore’). The cultural admiration of the prostitute is, in Ekman’s view, just contempt from another perspective: “It is still not a recognition of women’s humanity, rather a love of all that is nasty and low which the prostitute is associated with.” Those who wear the T-shirts in Barcelona think they’re being radical, that they’re transgressing norms. But “what they don’t understand is that the whore is not a whore, she is a person”. As Ekman writes:

“White ‘wiggers’ absorb hip-hop, backpackers and travellers absorb third-world cultures, male transvestites and drag-queens absorb the female and the femme absorbs the prostitute. The ‘transgressing’ of divisions anticipates that the divisions remain. When the white play black or when academics declare themselves whores and drug addicts, they are mocking those people who are black, who are prostitutes and who are drug addicts”.

They are, she points out, acting from a position of power and have a complete lack of understanding for what life is actually like for those whom they imitate and shower with false admiration. The difference couldn’t be starker between, on the one hand, the post-modernist’s ‘transgression’ of norms and divisions between people and, on the other, the revolutionary’s desire to abolish them. As Ekman concludes:

“In the absolute meaning there are no whores. There are people in prostitution for a longer or shorter period of time. There are no ‘types’ of people, no characters. They are people who have ended up in a certain situation. The fetishised ‘transgressing’ of divisions separates itself from the the revolutionary ‘abolition’ of them. The abolition of divisions arises from seeing the human being, the humanity in everyone, everyone’s equal needs … It is an objective solidarity which is built on a subjective understanding. One puts themselves in another’s place and imagines themselves under different circumstances. It is to look into someone else’s eyes and see yourself. And with this insight comes also an insight of the cruelty of the system which has made her into a ‘type’.”

Fiction of unions for ’sex workers’

I also liked the section where Ekis Ekman highlighted the fiction of so-called ’sex worker’ unions. The International Union of Sex Workers (IUSW), for example, which is affiliated to the GMB and has spoken at conferences of the Labour Party and the Green Party, is run by a man called Douglas Fox. Fox claims to be a ’sex worker’ and accuses radical feminists of being big meanies out to silence him. Yet on closer inspection it becomes clear that Mr Fox is a liar. Sex worker he most certainly is not, rather he is a pimp who runs one of the UK’s largest escort firms. The IUSW’s membership, you see, is open to anyone, to pimps, to men who buy sex, to sympathetic academics. Of its minute membership of 150 (which compares to the 100,000 plus women and men who work in the UK’s sex industry) only a tiny minority are actual prostitutes. It’s the same all over Europe where similar organisations exist (such as ‘de Rode Draad’ in the Netherlands) – their membership is tiny, most aren’t even prostitutes, and they have never succeeded in pushing any independent union demands.

Those who support prostitution though have of course never been ones for the facts. We see this idea of ‘unions’ coming from both the left and the right because it’s convenient, it gives prostitution a certain false legitimacy. It doesn’t work and it never will work, but it successfully diverts attention away from the deeper questions around prostitution and why it exists in our society.

Related to this is the growth of the so-called ‘harm reduction’ lobby who have gained influence in recent years within a number of governments and international institutions. Ekman shows how this influence grew particularly around the time of the HIV/Aids epidemic of the 80s and 90s when the lobby was asked in by a number of organisations to determine policy on the issue. The International Labour Organisation (ILO) and World Health Organisation (WHO) have, for example, both come out in favour of legalising prostitution on the grounds that it will increase state revenues and make it easier to fight the spread of Aids. Both organisations, Ekman writes, have all started using phrases such as “she is not a victim, but a subject” and have called prostitution “a women’s job which should be recognised”.

The effect of this lobby gaining strength has of course been to further legitimise prostitution and make it harder to fight. When Ekman visited the offices of the organisation TAMPEP in Amsterdam, a group for HIV prevention among ‘migrant sex workers’, and asked if they couldn’t do anything to help women leave prostitution the reply she got was “But why would we do that? Our goal is to teach women to be better prostitutes” (ie. using condoms so as to protect the men who abuse them from infection). This aim (of teaching women to be better prostitutes) is supported with millions of euros of EU Commission money each year. Similarly an official pamphlet produced with the backing of the Australian government instructs prostituted women to “look like you’re enjoying it all the time” and tells the women how to turn down a violent man’s demands without “making him lose his lust”. In addition the pamphlet points out that it might be a good idea to try to avoid bruises because it “can force you to take time off work and as a result lose more money”.

Reality of prostitution

As Ekis Ekman makes clear the whole point of the so-called ‘harm reduction’ approach is to protect and uphold the system of prostitution. Those who champion it never ask any deeper questions about the nature of prostitution, its causes and effects. To waste millions on “teaching women to be better prostitutes” is a cruel joke in a world where tens of millions of women and girls are enslaved and systematically raped in the service of men’s sexual desires.

Why, she asks, despite the enormous harm caused by prostitution, does it continue to be allowed in so many countries? The statistics are hardly difficult to find and apply both where prostitution is legal and illegal:

* 71% of women in prostitution have been subjected to physical violence

* 63% have been raped while in prostitution

* 89% want to leave and would do so if they could

* 68% show signs of Post Traumatic Stress Disorder

* Women in prostitution have a death rate 40 times higher than the average

* Women in prostitution are 16 times more likely to be murdered

Something which Ekman argues strongly characterises prostitution is the splitting of body and mind/soul (I’m not sure how best to translate the Swedish ‘jag’), often a survival strategy for those involved in the industry. Almost all the accounts of prostitution clearly show the existence of this splitting: often those in prostitution create two completely different personalities, many stop feeling certain body parts, they disassociate themselves from their bodies.

The supporters of prostitution want us to believe that the body is something separate, that selling it has no wider consequences for those involved. They promote the idea of the body as something which people own and exercise rational control over, a product which, if they’re smart, they can make a bit of money out of. Being able to close off parts of yourself, separate mind and body and, all the time, keep a distance from what’s happening to you is something which has been hailed as an ideal by the friends of prostitution, a sign of strength. The consequence is that those who aren’t strong enough, the majority who for example develop PTSD, are shown little sympathy for it’s seen as their own fault for being weak and having gone into the wrong job.

Post-modernism’s defence of the status-quo

Perhaps particularly important for the left and for those who want to change society is when Ekman talks about how our language has been stolen and used in a way which does nothing other than to support the status-quo. She writes that since 1968 the powerful have had to reformulate themselves and the arguments they use in order to justify their existence:

“Institutions which hold power – capital, the media, academia, the political classes, men’s sexual power and ruling class privilege – have had to reformulate themselves to justify their existence. They can no longer assert that they have power because it is given by nature, rather all power relations have to be justified morally. This is done by hiding them … The nobility, corporations, the media, intellectuals – all suddenly claim themselves to be defiant, marginalised or deviant.

“The story of the sex worker fits into this. It unites an old, gender-role preserving practice with a new rebellious language. It becomes a symbiosis between the neo-liberal right and the post-modernist left. The neo-liberal right get a language which declares prostitution a form of free entrepreneurship and as something which relates to individual freedom. The post-modernist left get an excuse to not fight the prevailing power structure by referring to the voice of the marginalised.

“The post-modernist left is, as Terry Eagleton writes, a reaction to the neo-liberal hegemony. After communism’s collapse parts of the left reacted by masking their defeat as a victory … Instead of pointing out injustices some sections of the left have gone over to defining the status-quo as subversive.

“When it feels difficult to question injustices it becomes tempting instead to redefine them – perhaps injustices are not injustices if we look at them more closely but, on the contrary, rebellious actions? All at once pornography, prostitution, veils, maids and drug use begin to be explained as marginalised phenomena, as a woman’s right, or as an individual choice with subversive potential.”

I think Ekman is absolutely right here and the worst thing the left can do is give up its desire to fundamentally change society, to analyse and expose the power structures and norms which exist and to fight for their abolition. All around us we can see previously radical movements selling out and instead seeking an accommodation with the status-quo. The choice agenda being pushed by some feminists is just one of many examples of this.

Swedish prostitution debate

Finally another thing I found interesting in the book was her discussion of the development of the prostitution debate in Sweden in recent decades. Her opponents such as Petra Östergren and Laura Agustin have long accused Sweden’s sexköpslagen (law against buying sex) as being a result of a complete absence of Sweden listening to the views and interests of those in prostitution. Yet as Ekman shows the government’s Prostitutionsutredningen (prostitution investigation) of 1977, which shaped the Swedish prostitution debate for decades to come, was revolutionary in its focus on the views and experiences of prostituted women themselves and the questions it asked about the men who used them.

The centre-right politician Inger Nilsson who had been put in charge of the investigation had initially tried to suppress the women’s accounts after having met with several sex club owners, publishing instead a vastly trimmed-down version of the report with the personal testimonies excluded. When this emerged though there was a storm of outrage from feminists and the government was forced to release the 800 page investigation in full, which came out in book form. According to Ekman:

“It went down like a bomb. It was a landmark which changed society’s view of prostitution. It came to alter the direction of prostitution research in the whole of Scandinavia. Prostitution, just like rape, had become political … For prostitution research it meant going back to the beginning. Of the 19th century research – where the causes of prostitution were looked for in a woman’s personality and in disease – much was repudiated. Instead there began the building of new knowledge where the reasons were looked for in the relations between the genders and in society. And where would the researchers find the basis for this new knowledge? Yes, in the prostituted people’s own accounts.”

Conclusion

While I obviously can’t go into all of her book here I found Ekman’s Varat och varan highly interesting and informative and I think it provides extremely useful ammunition in the fight against the post-modernist turn which appears to characterise much of today’s academia as well as sections of the left. Let us reject the post-modernist victim hate. Being a victim is not shameful or an insult, neither is it a trait of character. For in an unjust world there will always be victims, there will always be people who have less power and wealth than others, who have less control over the direction in which their lives take. That you are a victim doesn’t mean you won’t find ways of adjusting to the situation you find yourself in, it doesn’t mean that you lack the capacity to think and act rationally. What it does mean is that we live in a world sorely in need of change. By abolishing the victim and by framing all of our actions as an individual choice the post-modernists are mounting nothing other than a reactionary defence of the status-quo.
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Re: Don't be fooled (review of new Swedish book)

Postby delphyne » Sat Sep 25, 2010 2:31 pm

Great stuff, Stuart. Did you translate the first two articles? Ekman sounds like a terrific voice against prostitution.
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Re: Don't be fooled (review of new Swedish book)

Postby StuartM » Sat Sep 25, 2010 3:05 pm

delphyne wrote:Great stuff, Stuart. Did you translate the first two articles? Ekman sounds like a terrific voice against prostitution.

Yeah, I did. But google translate also works quite well with Swedish - she links to some of the other articles she's written for various Swedish publications at kajsaekisekman.blogspot.com. Unfortunately the sex-pozzers seem to have reached Sweden too with pseudo-feminists like Petra Östergren and queer-theorists such as Don Kulick doing all they can to challenge the sexköpslagen (sex purchase law). Ekman though has been pretty fearlessly taking them on and has won quite a lot of praise and attention recently within Sweden. Her new book was just out this month I think.
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Re: Don't be fooled (review of new Swedish book)

Postby StuartM » Wed Sep 29, 2010 4:23 pm

Looks like Laura Agustin has discovered my blog entry:

http://ssy.org.uk/2010/09/prostitution-the-abolition-of-the-victim-and-post-modernisms-defence-of-the-status-quo

She says Douglas Fox is no longer in the IUSW. Even if that's somehow true you certainly wouldn't get such an impression from their website. And it doesn't change the fact that they're still an organisation for pimps and sex industry profiteers.
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Re: Don't be fooled (review of new Swedish book)

Postby StuartM » Thu Sep 30, 2010 3:04 am

Now Fox himself has turned up:

I would like to correct a few factual inaccuracies. I was a member of the iusw but never had any position of authority within the organisation. I left because I edit and write for a sex workers blog called harlotsparlour.com and I wanted to be free to write freely about sex work and to criticise whomever I wish including the Iusw. If the writer of this article had done his research he would also realise that I have worked as an independent gay male escort for 11 years and advertise on various gay escorting web sites under my working name of Chris. My civil partner owns and runs and an escort agency. My partner is not a front line sex worker but a manager. As in many industries the roles of management and worker are often interchangeable.. Many sex worker managements were once or still are sex workers or are involved in a relationship with a sex worker.
This article is written from a flawed ideological position that ignores the experiences of real sex workers. Quoting very dubious statistics as absolute facts does not actually make them factual unfortunately, no matter how much those who quote them may wish it.

The only people really qualified to talk about sex work are sex workers. Patronising sex workers, dismissing the voices of sex workers, perpetuating the societal
abuse of sex workers, encourage governments to legislate against our human rights, ignoring male sex workers and trans men and women, ignoring the huge diversity of sex work and our experiences is insulting.

This article is simply changing the old language of abuse that ignores our voices and patronises sex workers as “others”. Prejudice, ignorance and abuse remains the same regardless if it is the right or the left who are talking to us rather than listening to us.
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Re: Don't be fooled (review of new Swedish book)

Postby sam » Thu Sep 30, 2010 7:42 am

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Re: Don't be fooled (review of new Swedish book)

Postby berryblade » Fri Oct 01, 2010 12:13 am

StuartM wrote:Now Fox himself has turned up:

I would like to correct a few factual inaccuracies. I was a member of the iusw but never had any position of authority within the organisation. I left because I edit and write for a sex workers blog called harlotsparlour.com and I wanted to be free to write freely about sex work and to criticise whomever I wish including the Iusw. If the writer of this article had done his research he would also realise that I have worked as an independent gay male escort for 11 years and advertise on various gay escorting web sites under my working name of Chris. My civil partner owns and runs and an escort agency. My partner is not a front line sex worker but a manager. As in many industries the roles of management and worker are often interchangeable.. Many sex worker managements were once or still are sex workers or are involved in a relationship with a sex worker.
This article is written from a flawed ideological position that ignores the experiences of real sex workers. Quoting very dubious statistics as absolute facts does not actually make them factual unfortunately, no matter how much those who quote them may wish it.

The only people really qualified to talk about sex work are sex workers. Patronising sex workers, dismissing the voices of sex workers, perpetuating the societal
abuse of sex workers, encourage governments to legislate against our human rights, ignoring male sex workers and trans men and women, ignoring the huge diversity of sex work and our experiences is insulting.

This article is simply changing the old language of abuse that ignores our voices and patronises sex workers as “others”. Prejudice, ignorance and abuse remains the same regardless if it is the right or the left who are talking to us rather than listening to us.


Funny how he never critise his clients who pay to use and abuse him, and funny how this 'criticism' seems to be limited to those who oppose pay-per-rape. His partner is a pimp, and this means his testimony is 100% free + accurate? Puh leaze.

God I hate this whole "the only people certified to talk about it are in it' - that's like saying only meat eaters are qualified to talk about animal rights/environmentalist ideology, it's a smoke screen.

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Re: Don't be fooled (review of new Swedish book)

Postby phio gistic » Fri Oct 01, 2010 7:53 am

Yes, only murderers can have an opinion on murder, only bank robbers can talk about bank security, only child molesting clergy can talk about sex abuse in churches and only rapists can discuss how to stop rape. Makes perfect sense.
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Re: Don't be fooled (review of new Swedish book)

Postby sam » Fri Oct 01, 2010 8:36 am

It is common knowledge that prostitution survivors consider what pimps and johns did to them as rapes. The "sex workers only" tactic forces rape survivors to publicly reveal themselves as prostitutes and rape survivors if they want to speak against prostitution.

I know several radfem bloggers who revealed to me they prostituted but will not reveal that information (1. they were prostitutes 2. they were raped) on the Internet. Some of those prostituted women have been banned from liberal blogs when they argued against prostitution without offering up sexee whore pain for the viewing public to judge.
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