One porn video on a pornographic blog was called,This Bitch Hates Facials, another had a slut f*cked so hard in her a*ss till she screamed, another had drunken sluts be f*cked hard and get facials,another had sluts gagging on huge co*ks being throat f*cked another had a whore sister being f*cked hard,another had a young slut mother getting slammed by 2 huge c*cks in her own home after she puts her two children to bed etc etc!
Another web site called Big Ti*s.com describes, Watch these big tit*ed bitches be forced to eat cum,watch these big tit*ed sluts get f*cked hard etc!
If you or anyone else really wants to know how watching pornography effects men's sexist woman hating attitudes and teaches damaging distortions about women and sexuality,then please call up talklines like National where the men pay mostly for phone sex,and the women call for free. They call from all over the country. And there are other talklines like these also like The Night Exchange and local ones too. I called out of curiosity. Most of the men say casually and proudly that they are watching a porn video when they call,and some just play the soundtrack of women screaming,being f*cked etc on their greeting messages that go out to all of the women on the line. Many of these men on these lines said woman hating hateful things to me.
They describe what they are seeing in the pornography and one 25 year old guy says on his greeting message that he's watch a woman on her knees giving a guy a blow job,and he's jerking off on her face,and he says his girlfriend never does this and he's trying to find a woman who will! Another guy sent me a recorded message saying he's watching a porn video of a young blonde woman being f*cked in the a*ss by a huge black c*ck and she loves it. Many of these men are saying they are looking for cum sluts,cum whores and horny bitches just like women are described in pornography! Another guy says he's watching a porn video before he goes to work in the morning of a woman being pounded in the a*ss, and then they go to work with their female employees and female bosses,and how are they going to give them equal opportunities and equal pay,much less not sexually harass them!
Another guy says he's watching a woman be f*cked hard in the a*ss and he insisted I would like this too,another sends me a message asking me where do I want him to cum,on my a*ss,on my t*tts,or down my throat? I sent him a message back and said where did you get this idea from pornography? He sends me a message back and says Yes, as a matter of fact he's watch a porn video of a woman being f*cked by five men and she's probably going to take all of their cum.
Many of these men said to me that they wanted to cum on my face and breasts and they believed and insisted that I and most women want and enjoy this! There were also men saying on their greeting messages that they want cum sluts and whores to throat F*ck and gag and choke on their c*cks untill they puke! Another guy says on his greeting message that he's watching a porn video of a woman being f*cked by two men at the same time,one in her a*ss and another in her p*ssie. I asked him if he would want his mother or sister to be portrayed this way,and he says if it gave them pleasure yes,another typical porn conditioned user! Another young guy says on his greeting message that he's watching a porn video of a woman being f*cked in her p*ssie and eating her girlfriend out at the same time, and he says he can see the guy's c*ck going in and out of her p*ssie.
I asked a married man who says on his greeting message that he's watching a porn video and he's looking for cum sluts,how does pornography portray women,and he says it portays them as sluts who loved to be f*cked,and he says he watches it with his wife and they like to play out the roles in it. Another married guy right before him also said he was watching a porn video and was looking for cum whores. Another guy says he wants to F*ck his daughter's 13 year old friend,and that he masturbated after his 13 year old daughter caught him watching a porn video and his wife was watching it with him,and she gave him a blow job and he ejacualted in her mouth and face and his 13 year old daughter saw this. Another guy says he wants to talk about the freaky thing he saw his daughter do,and he explains he caught his 14 year old daughter masturbating in front of her 14 year old friend right in the living room and they were watching his lesbian porn video etc etc!
And as Dr.Gail Dines said many of her female students tell her that their boyfriends are constantly asking them to do the things they have seen in pornography,she said they have seen it in the pornography and now they want to experience it in real life,and she said many young women are so afraid of being alone without a manb in their life that they will give in and do these things even though their instincts are saying don't do it!
And Dr.Chyng Sun also says many women have told her that their husbands and boyfriends are asking them to do the things they see in pornography. I have also read women say on message boards that they were upset that their boyfriends or husbands were constantly asking them to let them ejaculate on their faces and they mention how they saw this in pornography,and there was a guy on his message board asking women, if theywould like a facial just like they show on porn videos he said. Another guy made this a topic on a message board asking how can we get our wives and girlfriends to take a facial and he said like they show in the porn videos.
A young guy wrote on an advice "adult" site that his girlfriend was always wild in bed,and he pulled out and came on her face and she freaked out and left him,he said he couldn't understand it,and watches a lot of porn videos and the porn stars just love the facials! etc etc. I also have to say that it really shows how pornography teaches and legitimizes the pornographic definition of sex as a sexist male dominated definition and since this is the *only* popular version of sexuality thats put out there,people who want women to be treated and portrayed as full equal human people,not just things to stick penises into,and called woman hating names,ejaculated all over ,another words because we are against sexist woman hating male dominated definitions of sex,which is what pornography teaches,we are called anti-sex prudes,it's really so unreal and scwrewd up!
I'm sure that if it was black people portrayed this way for whites and Jews for anti-semetic Christians and Germans.It would *never* have been made so acceptable and mainstreamed,and most people would be outraged and would understand the *real* issues of sexualized racism,and anti-semeticism and it wouldn't just be blacks and Jews who would be outraged and who would understand the real issue of injustice and harm,and *nobody* would call blacks and Jews anti-sex prudes if they were against it! Only when it's women! But it's to be expected that in a patriarchy the popular version of women and sex would be a sick,sexist,woman hating,distorted male dominated one!
Andrew,