Phillip Michael Peck died
Posted: Sun Mar 11, 2007 12:28 pm
You may have noticed that Genderberg is dedicated to a man named Phillip Michael Peck.
http://www.genderberg.com/phpNuke/modul ... icle&sid=8
This morning his mother called to tell me he died at the age of 32 from complications with the medicines he was taking for AIDS.
Phil was a gay man and my best friend from junior high school. His personal diva was Debbie Gibson and he wanted to direct Broadway musicals some day. He was also a prostituted man who started turning tricks as a teen after older men solicited him from NYC mall bathrooms. From there he went on to do gay pornography, live sex shows, and drag performances using my middle name as his stage name. He ran a gay escort agency for a time until he got arrested.
A few years ago his partner of six years and another prostituted man and friend of mine, Darren, died suddenly from AIDS. Since then Phil stopped prostituting, beat his addictions to various hardcore drugs, and was still struggling to overcome his alcoholism as he volunteered with the Gay Men's Health Clinic in Manhattan. Phil told me he probably got HIV from a trick who offered an extra $20 bucks to go bareback, and for those measly twenty dollars he got a death sentence.
I've been close friends with Phil since I was 13 and have a fat folder full of letters, holiday cards, dried flowers, and other memorabilia of our many misadventures. I used to brag to people with sex poz pride that I had sex worker friends who were happy and living the good life, thereby boosting my own sexee street cred by choosing not to relay the stories Phil told of getting raped, stealing drugs and money from tricks, and getting various sexually transmitted diseases. While I don't blame myself for the pains he went through in prostitution, I can't help but wonder if things might have been a little different if I didn't encourage and fucking applaud his and Darren's prostituting all those years. When I last saw him in October he told me how proud he was of Genderberg and the work I'm doing, and the Valentine's Day e-card he sent implied a shift in fortunes and hope for the future.
Phillip Michael Peck died this week at age 32 because of men's belief in their right to sex with prostitutes. If you thought I was a stubborn bitch before about cock-blocking tricks then steel yourself for Sam version 2.0
http://www.genderberg.com/phpNuke/modul ... icle&sid=8
This morning his mother called to tell me he died at the age of 32 from complications with the medicines he was taking for AIDS.
Phil was a gay man and my best friend from junior high school. His personal diva was Debbie Gibson and he wanted to direct Broadway musicals some day. He was also a prostituted man who started turning tricks as a teen after older men solicited him from NYC mall bathrooms. From there he went on to do gay pornography, live sex shows, and drag performances using my middle name as his stage name. He ran a gay escort agency for a time until he got arrested.
A few years ago his partner of six years and another prostituted man and friend of mine, Darren, died suddenly from AIDS. Since then Phil stopped prostituting, beat his addictions to various hardcore drugs, and was still struggling to overcome his alcoholism as he volunteered with the Gay Men's Health Clinic in Manhattan. Phil told me he probably got HIV from a trick who offered an extra $20 bucks to go bareback, and for those measly twenty dollars he got a death sentence.
I've been close friends with Phil since I was 13 and have a fat folder full of letters, holiday cards, dried flowers, and other memorabilia of our many misadventures. I used to brag to people with sex poz pride that I had sex worker friends who were happy and living the good life, thereby boosting my own sexee street cred by choosing not to relay the stories Phil told of getting raped, stealing drugs and money from tricks, and getting various sexually transmitted diseases. While I don't blame myself for the pains he went through in prostitution, I can't help but wonder if things might have been a little different if I didn't encourage and fucking applaud his and Darren's prostituting all those years. When I last saw him in October he told me how proud he was of Genderberg and the work I'm doing, and the Valentine's Day e-card he sent implied a shift in fortunes and hope for the future.
Phillip Michael Peck died this week at age 32 because of men's belief in their right to sex with prostitutes. If you thought I was a stubborn bitch before about cock-blocking tricks then steel yourself for Sam version 2.0